if you turn the dial back on the way back when machine

to say about 10 years or so... you would find me mostly just about getting over a relationship... I wrote about it before... it was a guy I was seeing from Uni whom kind of dropped off the face of the earth. I really fancied the pants of him but then he just vanished... I wrote about this on my blog about 2 years ago when I had a similar experience with someone else i was dating... I was begining to wonder if :

1) I drove them away or
2) I just have a knack of picking people who are about to have a crisis (independant of their relationship with me) that causes them to vanish...

I guess it's easier for me to blame myself as then I can resolve it.... well sometimes there are happy endings. The guy from 10 years back sent me an email out of the blue the other day. He had obviously found my blog... and my story about him... I must admit I felt mildy mortified... I know this is a public space but I guess sometimes it comes as a surprise as to who actually reads this! All good news of course. He is alive and well and producing offspring in a hurried fashion... his 4th is due in Feb! Fab no? I am so pleased that he is well and has found happiness. Closure is good :)

Speaking of happy endings... I saw a movie last night called happy finishes or something like that... and no it is not porn! It was with Tom arnold, Lisa Kudrow, Maggie Glyddenhall... nice film!! I also saw another one with Ben affleck... i can't remember what it was called but he was an agent for screenwriters in LA... it was entertaining too! What a coup both films we chose were good!